SQLite in core: maintenance trade-offs compared with other language ecosystems

先阅读 issues #49663 和 #53264，然后查看当前的 node:sqlite 文档。添加一段简明说明，解释维护方面的权衡、SQLite 为何仍保留在 core 中，以及用户如何确定 SQLite 的安全修复是否需要更新 Node。

I've been reading #49663 and #53264 to understand how SQLite ended up in Node core. I understand that it was first accepted for localStorage, and that exposing node:sqlite followed from that.

Looking at other ecosystems, there seem to be a few different approaches:

• Python includes the sqlite3 wrapper in its standard library, though how the SQLite engine is supplied depends on the distribution.
• Java provides JDBC, while SQLite support comes through a separate driver.
• .NET provides an official Microsoft.Data.Sqlite package, installed separately through NuGet.
• Go provides database/sql and leaves the actual drivers to external packages.
• Bun and Deno both provide built-in SQLite APIs.

The .NET approach seems particularly interesting here: users get an officially maintained integration, but its updates can be delivered separately from the runtime.

Given that Node already needs SQLite for localStorage, how much additional maintenance and security exposure comes from offering the broader public API? Was an official, separately distributed binding considered, and what made keeping it in core preferable?

I'm also curious how this works in practice when SQLite publishes a security fix. Where can users find out whether it affects Node's build and exposed functionality, and whether a Node update is needed?

A short explanation of these trade-offs in the docs would be useful. The original issues explain the path to inclusion, but I still have trouble understanding the long-term maintenance implications. Happy to be pointed to an existing discussion if I've missed it.