[BUG] Use jar-with-dependencies to package frontend artifacts in GIE

Describe the bug

It is quite superised that we didn't use jar-with-dependency to package the release artifacts for java. Recent changes about neo4j introduced some new jar dependency, double the size of the wheel package (https://pypi.org/project/graphscope/0.23.0a20230625/#files), makes graphscope hard to install with python ....

Expected Outcome

The ultimate goal is to reduce the size of wheels, which in this issue, is the artifacts of interactive engine. You could observe the size of artifacts of gie by make interactive and find graphscope.tar.gz within interactive_engine/assembly/target

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